In memory of my late grandfather Shri Harilal Prajapati

Hello Everyone , Hope you are all good.

Yeh post likhna isliye jaruri samjh rha hoo ki dada ji ka vayktitva and unke vicharo ko dhyan me rakhte aur usko marg darshan samjhkar aage badhne k liye.Kai bar jeevan me ham andhakar me hote hai aur aise samy me jab dada ji k mehnat, parishram and imandari ki batein batata hai to apne astitatva aur jado ko phir se naye shire se dekhne ki abhilasha hoti hai aur prasanata , atamviswas milta hai ki ham usi ghar k sadasya hai tatha usi nam aur ekta ko banaye rakhne ka bal milta hai. Is samay man me bechaini hoti hai ki akhir ham aisa kyn nhi kar rhe ho jo parivar aur samaj k liye hitkar ho.Kuch na rhte hue unhone apne mehnat k dam par apne parivar ko aage rakha , samaj me samman prapt hua. Ham padhne likhne k bad bhi , akhir kyn piche rah ja rhe hai. Hame unk vykatita vicharo aur parivar k sath rhne aur parivar ko age le jane k liye kyn mehnat nhi karte. Yeh prashn avashy a hi damak me ata hai jab ham dadaji k bare me sunate hai. Aaj is blog k madhyam se in vicharo ko saja k rakhne k liye aur apne aap ko sahi marg par chalne k liye , yeh mere liye deepak ka shrorta ka karya karega.

Kisi bhi desh ,  vaykati aur samaj ka uska itithas badi bhumika nibhata hai. Aaj apne itihas ko aur apne apne atit ko yad rakhkar apne parivar ko aage le jane k liye hamesha uchit raste ka chuanav aur mehnat se aage badhte hue apne lakshya tak pahuchana avasyak hai.

Dadaji ghar ki samasya ko dekhte hue Mumbai aa gye aur yhn pure jeevan atath parishram karte samy. Bacpan ki sabse pahle yad jo mere jahn me ati hai ki dada ji mujhe khana khila rhe hai aur mujhe teekha hone ki wajh se mujhe asudha ho rhi aur woh hamseha mujhe doodh khane se mana karte the to mujhe kafi priya tha us samy aur santulit ahar khane k liye bal dete the.

Dada ji ka swabhav pariwar k liye anushashanpurn tha aur kisi ne agar alasya ya kam karne me dhilai barti to awashya hi unke gusse aur dat ka shikar hota tha. Isk alawa khan pan ka bhi kafi dhyan dete the.ham kisi bhi prakar k bahar ki cheeze jaise pav, bread, khari ityadi khane ki hamesha se varjit tha. Dadi ji kabhi agar paise de deti aur ham lakar kha lete to dada ji hame avashya datte the.

Halanki unki sikha  kachha panch tak hui thi lekin unko siksha aur uske mahatavva ki kafi samjh thi. Unhone ne hamare mata pita ko hame Mumbai me padhane ki aagya di aur uske parinamswaroop aaj ham sikhit hai anytha ek majdoor warg ka jeevan jeena anivary tha.

Dada ji jarurat mando ki sahayta karne me kabhi chukte nhi the aur unko paise ki jarurat hone par unki avashya sahayta karte the. Ek bar unhone ek vaykati ki sahayta ki jise kahin se paise nhi mil rhe the aur kisi nhi usko mere dada ji k pas bheja . Dadaji ne use 10000 rupye diya , jisse uski patni k ilaj me sahayte ki . Is sahayta se khush hokar vah vakati hamare ghar par bhit sare peti(metal box) banakar bina paise ka diya. Khandan k sabhi logo ko unhone me mumbai me lakar unse kulfi ka dhnadha lagane me sahayta ki aur sabko woh apna parivar samjhte the aur unki bhalai ka khyal rakhte the. 

Jab main mumbai aa gya to dadaji bhi bimari k ilaj ki wajh se mumbai aa gye . Samay samay par hame unki dat aur fatkar milti rhti thi aur unka asar ab samjh me ata hai woh kitna jarurat thi.

Parivar me equality rhe yeh dadaji ka hamesha dhyan rahta tha. Ek bar main apne mummy k yhn se apne nanihal gya aur wahn se naye kapde mile mujhe. Ab un naye kapdo ko lekar main ghar aya aur dadaji ko laga yeh kapde mummy papa ne diya hai aur unhone ne kathor shabdo me mujhse pucha ki chote bhai k liye kyn naye kapde nhi aaye , jiska mere pas jabab nhi tha aur main abodh tha. Dadaji k samne koi jawab nhi de pata tha. 


Main mehnat se padhta tha to dadaji ko achha lagta tha lekin mere acche swasth k liye woh hamesh mujhe subh uthate the aur daud lagane k liye kahte the. 

Dada ji apne antim samy k dauran kidney failure hone ki wajh se kamjor ho gye the lekin aise awastha hote hue bhi woh 7 floor seedhiyo se chadh jate the. 

Dada ji ka jeevan mujhe parishram, imandari , apne parivar aur aas pas k logo ki sahayat aur khyal rakhne ki prerna deta hai. Unke bare me yad kark mujhe ataynt hi sukh ka anubhav pratit hota hai.

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